Derek Jeter, throughout a stellar career in Major League Baseball that has spanned eighteen seasons, gets a hit—on average—only three times for every ten at-bats. And he is destined for induction in the Hall of Fame, probably the first ballot, five years after he retires.
Michael Jordan, arguably the greatest basketball player to step onto an NBA court, has missed more shots than he’s taken. That’s an admission out of his own mouth and a matter of statistical fact. And he’s Michael Jordan—a Hall of Famer and the standard by which professional hoopsters are judged.
Thomas Edison had over a thousand failures before he perfected the incandescent light bulb. He kept at it until he got it right.
None of us is perfect. We are all uneven performers in every conceivable area of life. And yet we are capable of excellence and being outstanding in those things to which we put our hands. Think about that.
Excellence does not mean never making a mistake, striking out, dropping a pass or making a train wreck of a meeting or conversation. It does mean, however, getting up and dusting off, stepping back into the batter’s box, and calling someone and saying, “I’m sorry. I blew it. Please forgive me.”
Failed recently? Join the club. You are not a god and neither am I. We are uneven often, perhaps most of the time. But we keep at it. We don’t stop trying. We double down and give better effort and evaluate failure points as well as those times where we succeeded.
Okay now—no self-pity. Don’t take yourself too seriously. Bruised egos are not fatal by any means. Get back on that horse and charge!