Feel the Fear (and Do It Anyway)

7 06 2012

I grew up in the country, working and playing on farms.  There’s scarcely anything more adventurous for a kid than the things he can find to do on a large dairy farm.  Climbing silos.  Throwing apples at passing cars.  Pitching manure and playing in it.  Some of it was permitted.  A lot of it was not and we got yelled at from time to time.  But it was great fun.

When you are young, you don’t always use your head.  Some of our exploits involved jumping out of hay mows and walking on really high beams above cattle, mangers and bales of hay and straw.  I have to admit I got anxious at times.

The key to doing these things—which were quite scary for a boy—was simply doing them.  If you sat at the edge of the mow or straddled a beam and thought about it, your courage would flag and you wouldn’t take the chance.  A victory for brains; a defeat for derring-do.  (We were young and dumb, so daredevilry usually won the day.)

Our heroes in those days were people like Evel Knievel and Billy Jack.  One can understand why.

In 1988, a book appeared with the provocative title Feel The Fear And Do It Anyway.

Feel it….but then do it.

Jack Canfield has referred to this book and the principle it highlights.  I’ve adopted the idea with good results.

We all face fears and anxieties over different things.  For some it’s flying.  For others, public speaking.  Most of us shy away from difficult conversations, whether in sales or conflict resolution.  The key is to own the fact that you feel the emotion of fear but decide to do the thing you fear anyway.  And then do it.  Fear is, after all, a feeling.  It may have validity.  I have a good friend, a career Army guy who’s jumped out of a lot of planes.  There is real fear launching out of a C-130.  Good sense for a paratrooper is to make sure his parachute has been properly prepared.  But he still jumped.  Over and over and over again.

Most of us will not be leaping out of moving aircraft or tackling pythons.  But we can all grow by feeling it.  Then doing it.

It’s really simple.

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4 responses

7 06 2012
Sarah Novak

So true. Unused to tell my gymnasts the same thing. Now that I don’t coach, I find myself teaching my daughter this. “It’s ok to be afrai but you can’t let it conquer you. Remember fear is from the devil to keep us from succeeding. So go ahead and tell that devil he’s not keeping you and fear and lets go do this!” (just had this conversation referring to climbing something at a playground. And it was finished by her screaming out loud at the devil that he an’t make her afraid and then going right back an climbing). If I can reach her this now…imagine what she’ll do for the kingdom!

7 06 2012
Christian Fahey

Great point, Sarah, and so true. There is a real enemy out to destroy the enjoyment of a full life through fear and anxiety. Good for you and your girl. Thanks for reading!

8 06 2012

I remember running on the barn beams. I was braver then, or was I? Great post.

9 06 2012
Christian Fahey

We were all braver then, Moon. And a bit naive. But we had a LOT of fun. Thanks for reading!

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